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The whole concept of returning to who you were before your pregnancy is unrealistic; your body has taken almost a year to conceive, grow and birth your baby, it will take you time to recover and heal.Soft and supportive clothes that you can wear in bed and around the house are ideal because they’ll make you feel good, there won’t be any tight waistbands digging into your skin and they’ll move with you. Remember that you’ll spend many, many hours holding, feeding and cuddling your newborn; you want them to lie against soft clothing. And when you’re not wearing a top, we encourage you to practise skin-to-skin (your naked baby against your skin) because while it’s a beautiful thing to do as a new mum, it also promotes the flow of oxytocin which fosters your bond and helps establish a breastfeeding rhythm.
Your postpartum body will be soft and leaking – blood, milk and tears – and it deserves time, grace, acceptance and love as it heals. In the fourth trimester, you can expect the following:
Once you have birthed your baby and the placenta, your uterus begins a process called involution, where it contracts back to its original size. This also helps to ease blood loss. The more babies you’ve had, the more painful your afterpains may be, hence comfortable clothes that allow you to move (and squirm) freely, are essential.
Regardless of whether you had a caesarean or vaginal birth, you can expect to bleed for between 4-6 weeks after birth. This discharge is called lochia and it’s a mix of blood, mucous and tissue. In the first week after birth you can expect your discharge to be bright red and you may pass small clots. If you pass bigger clots, if you notice an unusual smell or a distinct increase in your blood loss (filling a pad an hour), contact your care provider.
About one-third of new mums experience night sweats, which are caused by hormonal fluctuations and excess fluid retained in pregnancy. It’s quite common to wet through your clothes and your sheets so yes, they can be uncomfortable and inconvenient. They’re often worse if you’ve had IV fluids during or after labour. Make sure you stay hydrated and wear natural fibres – cotton and bamboo – against your skin.
Whether you intend to breastfeed or not, your milk will come in roughly three days post-birth (expect it to take a bit longer if you’ve had a caesarean birth). You can expect to feel quite teary when your milk comes in (go on, have a good cry), as the hormone prolactin prompts the production of milk and tears. If you are breastfeeding, you can expect your breasts and nipples to be very tender; soft breastfeeding bras without underwire are highly recommended.
After birth, when you’re resting, recovering, and learning to embrace your postpartum body, comfort is key. Regardless of your size or shape, your soft core, aching perineum or healing caesarean scar, you need soft, breathable basics against your skin. Boody uses organically-grown bamboo to create supportive underwear that holds you when you need it most. Alongside their high-waisted full briefs that feature a thick and comfortable waistband, Boody has just released period and leak-proof undies, a must-have for postpartum and beyond. Pelvic floor weakness is expected after birth and comfortable underwear that catches the leaks will help you feel more confident; in hospital, at home and when you feel ready to leave the house with your baby.
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